Like or LOVE... How do you know?

So when do you really know? Heck I have no idea! And I think that is AWESOME!
Everyone is so worried about who likes who and if its love or just an infatuation! I have really never been in the situation. Not like I didn't like to date... I loved it but I never really liked anyone I dated. I never really "dated" but I have been on a few dates. I just never really got into the whole bf gf thing!

Now I had a different aspect on the whole topic! I have meet so many WONDERFUL people, but never really acted on the feeling... but things have changed and now all of my friends are getting hitched and it seems as though they ALL are wworried about it, and if they aren't they are seriously CRAZY. So I now have actually thought about who may date me and I get worried, but I don't want to because of the mish, and if I may get to that point with anyone, and I get afraid.
So like Elbert Hubbard said: The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one.
It's going to happen at least if I want to get married. So I did start to date, more, now there is someone in particular that I am favoring! HA So I have been thinking but didn't want to get too serious, because we both want me to serve. But now I have been thinking which is not always a good thing. So I am now even wondering, is it like or love or what?

I have asked a few people, very close people but I have never really received a STRAIGHT answer. So I have a combined thought about Love or Like and how you may know!
YOU never really will! It can be a surprise or you may know right away! You may never get tired of the person, or you can't LIVE without them! They may think the WORLD of you but you like em as a friend! There are so many different ways it could be the "L" word.

The only really way I think you will figure that answer out is by searching... HARD!
Now I really don't know about the ladies... but as for the gentlemen, I have some Ideas!
1. DON'T act like you don't like her! She will be able to tell, and if she can't then what a GREAT way to sneak right into the "Friend" without even, you, knowing!
2. Compliment her ALWAYS! She may be having the WORST day on record and you sayin' "Oh your hair looks great that way." or "Your outfit look really good!" Those simple words can make her feel like she is on "cloud 9".
3. Remember: BE HONEST! Don't make up things to make you look good or "cool". Be YOU! NO matter what! If she don't like that, you know she isn't your loves duet! :)
4. And PLEASE!!!! NO DUMB pick-up lines like: Excuse me. Did you just Fart?.... Because you just took my breath away! I can guarantee she WILL NOT be "picked-up"!

NOW I am no saying that I am a pro to any extent but I have notice these things can help! So give it a try... and Be CONFIDENT! You ARE worth it! If you don't think you are... then who is?

My "Home Away From Home"!

So I decided to ditch my job and go CRAZY! So I took 2 weeks off and went up to my wanna be home! UTAH! Oh do you people even know how much I love it there! Why people ever move it just boggles my whole existence! So I stayed with some FREAKING AMAZING people! The Micks... that is all I need to say! They are AWESOME! :) So I spent the 2 amazing weeks with them and had a BLAST. The trip was made even more enjoyable when I lost 7 yes 7 lbs! So now I only have 12 left until I can turn my papers in for the mission!




I love that family! :) I now have some AMAZING new friends! Some I can mention are Megan and Kara, they are the ones I meshed the best with! So I now miss it even more so there is NO DOUBT that this will be my new home in approximately 2 years! AHH and did I mention, there is a temple like every 3 miles! :) So I would LOVE! to live there... and if you know how much une temple means to me you know what I am talking bout! :) Just thought I would share!